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Category Archives: Relationship

Way to Observe Real Love Through Body Language

Focus

If you’re paying attention to someone, you focus and pay notice. If you’re not attracted in someone, your interest wanders. So if you’re sitting with the person you like, and he/she is looking at you when you’re discussing, that’s a enormous sign.

Dilated eyes

As they say “The eyes are the window to the spirit.” therefore while you are chatting to the person you like, your eye pupils dilate (get bigger) when you’re eager. So if someone’s eyes look actually big, it shows they’re attracted. Thus keep your eyes on him/her and monitor the eyes.

Lip and Mouth Activities

A girl may bite her lip softly, or run her tongue along her lip to demonstrate that she is attracted. Some girls even do this intentionally to flirt, even though it seldom looks normal. If you’re a girl, don’t try it, except you’re actually certain it looks normal.

Hair

Fiddling and playing with hair is one approach to confirm that you are attracted. Girls wrap their fingers in their hair. Guys run their hands all the way through their hair. Note that twirling your hair is more a sign of dullness and diversion.

Arms and Hands

If the girl keeps her arms or hands closed or crossed then that is an obvious sign that she’s not feeling relaxed. Arms that are out and away from her are less distrustful. Also, if the lady leaves her wrist-up, it’s kind of an “I trust you” action.

Legs

Women usually like to sit cross-legged and note that it doesn’t imply that she isn’t attracted. So disregard that and focus on the toes because, toes lean to respond to common body energy. So if someone’s feeling fed up and lethargic, they may just lay there. But if someone is feeling eager and vigorous, the toe may make little circles or leap.

The Voice

The way somebody talks and especially the tone of the voice is immensely important. It will immediately tell you whether: Are they fed up and exhausted? Are they considerate and calm? Are they inspired and attracted? To find out whether the person is attracted in you first watch your own speech and then watch how their speech changes. If someone wishes to ‘get along’ with someone else, they physically match their communication patterns together.

Ways to Find Perfect Love

1. Love Yourself

It might seem like an overused concept, but loving yourself is the first step towards being loved and loving others. If you’re comfortable with who you are you will appear more confident and attractive to those around you. The reason why so many romantic affairs end up badly is because one of the partners is leaning emotionally on the other. The fear that they’re not good enough for their partner makes them appear needy and insecure which undermines the relationship. In order to maintain healthy relationships, both partners need to be able to stand on their own. They need to be confident in their own abilities and learn to support each other in everything they do.

2. Be Available

Dates and special occasions shouldn’t be the only places to meet someone. Don’t rely on weddings, birthdays or other special arrangements to meet new people. Be available every day. We interact with a lot of people on a daily basis but yet we somehow believe that we can only find love on special occasions. Take your time to get to know the people around you; your soul mate could be just around the corner. Talk to people at the gym or grocery store. You don’t have to ask them on a date while waiting at the check-out but you can make new friends which can later turn into lovers. Be open to new experiences, especially if they involve meeting people you don’t normally interact with.

3. Take the First Step

Finding someone interesting is not a daily occurrence. Don’t miss your chances when opportunity comes knocking. Society has artificial norms by which men and women interact. Don’t be afraid to take the first step in asking someone on a date. One of the things I have learned in recent years is that ‘it’s ok to ask a guy out on a date’. The anticipation of an answer can be a hard thing to cope with but it’s nowhere near as bad as the regret of not taking your chances. Remember that the answer is either ‘yes’ or ‘no’. No may be a response and it it’s yes, it’s a bonus. People think that taking the first step somehow weakens their status when in fact it shows confidence and self-control. Confidence is always sexy and even if the answer is no, you gain the respect of being upfront about your intentions.

4. Let the Past be the Past

Sometimes, past relationships can create unresolved issues which, left unchecked, can undermine future relationships. In order to let go of the past and move on with your life, make sure you seek peace with your ex-partners. You can do this by apologizing or forgiving them and even keep them as your friends. This will allow you to let go and move on to meeting new people and create new relationships without the emotional anchor attached. Ex-partners can be great friends and advisors since you already have a shared past and things in common. However, once a partner becomes a friend you need to set the records straight between you and them and make sure they understand this.

5. Flow with the Go!

There is an inherent need in our society for people to stand out and be different just for the sake of being different. If you want to stand-out of a crowd in order to attract someone don’t do it by standing on the side when the people in the room are dancing. You need to be an integral part of society in order to meet new people and develop relationships. Leave your ego and fears at the door and accept that sometimes you have to be part of the crowd. Stand out by being confident in your abilities and not by creating an artificial persona that you can’t live up to. A Life Design Coach can help you to ‘step in front of your shadow’ and ‘turn up the volume on your life’! When you develop techniques and strategies from Life Design Coaching, you will ‘flow with the go’ effortlessly and this will become a natural part of who you are and were always meant to be.

Ways to Survive Devastating Infidelity

Here are the best ways on how to survive a devastating infidelity:

  • Go on a spiritual retreat. By communing with a more divine power, then you will be able to absorb the strength needed not only to accept your situation but also to better understand it. Nothing beats your worry and frustration than knowing that everything is in the work of something mightier than you.
  • Go back to the things you love doing. When you do the things that make you feel happy and alive then this passion of yours may prove to be therapeutic. Especially in the creative aspect, there is a form of healing and recovery in it. You can try painting or simply gardening. What’s important is that you feel happy and productive doing it.
  • Mingle as much as you can. Now this doesn’t mean that you go out and date again, rather, give yourself time to spend with those of your true best friends, your parents, and other loved ones. Knowing that you have your support group makes you alive and happy. They are your best weapons of moral support and their love will definitely give you many reasons to appreciate life better.
  • Join community groups. Divert your energy in worthwhile activities in your community. You might fail to know the people in your neighborhood and this is the best time to get to know them.
  • Learn and/or enroll in short courses. When you devote your focus in enriching things especially the ones that grow you as a person, it will boost your self-esteem again.

There is no easy way to survive infidelity but it is possible. It may take a while but step by step you will see that it’s not the end of the world. There are a lot of things and people that will fill your life with positive energy and love to cope and survive infidelity.

Love Spells For Finding True Love

If someone is searching for love spells, the odds are that they are looking to gain love, looking to mend a break up, or looking to intensify their love life all for the better.

Love is something that each of us longs for- however, not all of us are lucky enough to find it in life. When one is in love the universe glows and when one is looking for that magical feeling of love to have in their life and just don’t seem to be able to find it then a love spell can help. Love spells are performed to help you to find that one true love in life that may last a lifetime.

You can’t just cast a spell and forget about it. You will need to keep on the alert for the signs that the spells are working. And even if the spell takes you down on the right path, you will eventually have to find a way to walk it. It’s like the navigation system on your car – it will tell you where to go, but you still have to drive the car yourself.

Lost love spells do not reunite the separated souls by itself rather it helps build and make the ground to resume the communication and thereby normalize the relationship in the most natural ways. Quite often they themselves don’t know why such a complete blockade had happened in their relationships. By using the lost love spells, no two individuals are brought together by the so called magic, since no magic can last for a life.

Place both of your hands in front of you and arrange them as if you are holding an imaginary baseball. Take slow and deep breaths and envision that a ball of powerful energy is in your hands. In between your hands. Again take slow and deep breaths and each time I want you to feel the powerful ball of energy in your hands. Try to truly believe it is there as you look at your hands. Do not move your hands and keep them in the same position as you keep repeating the above directions.

You won’t need to resort to oysters, champagne, chocolate, or any other secret ingredients believed to fill the air with romance. What you will need to do is look deep within and find the words to put to paper that let him know how very deeply sorry you are.

Write to your ex lover who you believe still loves you, who cares about how you feel, and who inspires you to be unafraid to grow and learn. When you have finished the free love spell, place the letter on your West altar, your main altar, or sleep with it under your pillow.

A big part of that is finding the small group of people that are a big part of your spiritual journey. Your family, closest friends and so forth are amongst this group. But so TOO is that “1” special soul, or spiritual partner that is here to help you grow, learn and experience the power and potential of TRUE bliss! They are out there… it’s just up to you to find them!

Maintain A Long Lasting Relationship

However, you always have a choice to make your relationship work and live a happy life.

Do not set expectations

One common cause of break up is setting up expectations. When your partner fails to meet your high expectations then you now know where your relationship is heading. Never expect too much from your partner as you might only get disappointed in the end.

Open Communication

Communication plays a very important role in the success of your relationship. If you do not tell your partner how you feel, then things might get out of hand. Couples should always communicate to avoid misunderstandings and fight. Both parties should clearly convey what is in their hearts as your partners are not psychics.

Space

Everyone needs to be alone sometimes, so give your partner some space. Let them do things without you and do it for yourself as well. Remember that you are not the only people in this world. So every once in a while, go out separately and spend some time apart.

Trust

Learn to trust your partners. No relationship will work if there is no trust. Lack of trust is the usual cause of fights. It is true that there can be times when you might have doubts with your partner. If this happens then ask your partner right away but ask it in a nice way. Do not sound too confrontational as it will only lead to a fight. Trust costs nothing but in terms of a relationship …means everything.

It always takes two to create a harmonious relationship. You and your partner should always help each other out. It will never work if only one is making an effort to make a relationship last. Remember that no matter how much you love each other if no one is making an effort, then your relationship is doomed. Maintaining a relationship is not all about love, you also need to work hard for it.

Tips for a Stronger Relationship Bond

  1. Find time to talk to each other every day. Constant communication with your partner builds strong bond together. Knowing about your partner’s thoughts and feelings will make you understand each other more.
  2. Be honest. Sharing your honest opinion on certain issues in your relationship will keep the communication line between you and your partner. Honesty is a solid foundation of any relationship.
  3. Appreciate your partner every day. Appreciating even little things that your partner does only shows that you value him and your relationship with him. Saying “You’ve done a good job”, “I really appreciate your effort in fetching me from work” will boost his morale and lift his spirits.
  4. Be good listener. Empathize with your partner if he has a problem at work, which is the common source of stress. Listening to him while he is telling his problem, without interruption and criticizing will make him feel your love and support.
  5. Respect your partner. There might be times when you don’t agree with his views and opinion, but respecting them will avoid conflicts in your relationship.
  6. Learn to be tolerant. There may be times when your partner’s quirks and idiosyncrasies will irritate you but being tolerant to them will only prove your love to your partner since those are all part of the reason why you love him.
  7. Be supportive to your partner. One of the most solid foundations of a lasting relationship is the ability to give each support most especially when it comes to emotional problems.

Importance of Trust In a Relationship

A lot of relationships end up because of trust- lack of trust or a destroyed one. This important element in a relationship can easily be destroyed like cheating or lying to your partner. When trust is violated, breakup is inevitable even for long term relationships. Nobody wants a partner that is lying and cheating all the time. Nobody wants a partner that you cannot trust. Everybody is looking for that someone that they feel very comfortable with. Trust is undoubtedly necessary. It is easy to build your trust to someone but it is much harder to rebuild it if it has been destroyed. If you want to make your relationship work, consider the following things which can strengthen your relationship with your partner.

Be Truthful

The idea of trust relies on the truthfulness of things involved in your relationship. Always be truthful to build a credible and right impression. Act, say or feel on what is true to both of you. Being truthful is one of the key to make stay with you forever.

Correct Your Mistakes

Everybody commits mistakes. It is natural for people to do wrong. However, intentionally making mistakes for your own good can damage the trust people have for you. Correct your mistakes if avoiding it is inevitable.

Be Responsible

All your acts bring up consequences, whether favorable or not. The idea of being responsible to your behavior can help you gain trust. Responsibility not only applies to the acts you have done but also to the consequences it brought in your relationship.

Way to Love The Other in Life

We can often hear that”I love you”.The three words can be said easily ,But who really know what is called love. Love is a kind of feeling. When you him or her, you just listen to your heart and then you know the feeling.It is like a chocolate, a bird. It’s not easy to use the language to describe it . Love is a kind of responsibility. After you choose someone to walk with you,you have the responsibility to protect him or her.Even if you meet a person who is better than him or her,you can not just left him or her,because of the responsibility. Love is sacred . The love lets you find the one who accompanys you to go ahead toward the end of your life.

The love combines the two who don’t have any connections at first.The two not only found a family together but also feed a child who only belongs to them. Love is a strange thing.But do you know how to love the one you loves? It is complex and easy. In a word ,you should try your best to love the ones you love,and you will find that love the other is loving yourself.If you’re a boy,you’d better tolerate your lover as much as possible.Even if she often complains to you because that you two must learn to hold the way the other accustomed. Only when you two can tolerate each other including the bad habits can you live happily together. Dear friends,when you choose someone,please be responsible to them. As a girl,don’t complain to them when you meet trouble every time,because they are not super man. You should learn to solve every problem by yourself instead of turn to anyone else. If he loves you ,he will do everything he can for you even you don’t asking. And you should think over at his sight.

Don’t always think for you only and learn to help him using your thin hand . You must learn to grow up first. Excellent men usually love those women who are good-temper. They are not stupid to find a bad-temper girl. As a boy,you should learn to protect your girlfriend just like her brother. When she crys.you should give her a firm hug. When she is lonely,you should accompany her using your heart. Girls are always not that strong like a man ,you should learn to walk in her heart ,knowing who she is really want,and give that with your best try. Dear friend,if you have the one always accompany you ,you’d better love the one using your heart.

The Pruning Process of Love

Love nurtures with tenderness and gentleness; however, love also expresses itself in firmness and strength.

Dried leaves fall off of trees and plants when they no longer serve their purpose on them. A gardener prunes a tree, removing dead branches and leaves, in order for it to bear more fruit.

For you to fulfill your life purpose, the pruning process of love is essential. Holding on to things that are hindering you from or that are not taking you in the direction of fulfilling your ultimate purpose, robs you of the joy of life and the joy of purpose. Some of these things may include old childhood beliefs, traditions, or even societal and environmental programming.

You are free to make choices in your life and therefore those choices you make should reflect who you choose to be, allowing other things in your life that do not serve your ultimate purpose to fall off or be removed. For example, if you choose to become a coach for others, your actions should revolve around those activities that bring you closer to your goal and not be involved in activities that draw you away from your target. This also applies for changing your behaviour. If you choose to be a more loving person, then think about others in a more loving way and express that love, whether through an uplifting word, a genuine smile or a kind act.

Keep this in mind, that which you have pruned, even though it is not currently active in your life, may be used for future reference in carrying out your purpose, as in past personal experiences which you can draw upon the positive highlights to help you or help another person.

Sometimes the decision to removing the non-beneficial aspect of your life may seem difficult, but being aware that this is part of your growth process makes the transition worthwhile.

Yield to the pruning process today, and as nature shows us, experience the fullness of your fruitfulness, thereafter.

Respect In Relationship

1. Be the person you are

Being real gives an indication to your partner that you are sincere with your words and actions. Never give your partner any reason to doubt your genuineness so always learn to be real. As such, it allows for the respect to arise.

2. Respect begets respect

Learn to gain respect within yourself and you can then respect others. The ability to respect yourself should be coming from what is inside of you. You cannot expect your partner to respect you when you are not worthy to be respected as a person. Think of your acts.

3. Be proactive in the relationship; take your part

It is always two to tango, and so working together towards the betterment of the relationship is far better than only ONE is doing everything to keep it. Two parties have to be involved on either saving or reaching out the damaged relationship. Always show to your partner that you have always been there through the good and bad times. Respect will be out of the picture when you are always passive.

4. Be attractive

This doesn’t mean that you will be wearing fascinating clothes and heavy make-up. Make him/her feel that you have never changed, that you are still the person he/she loved and cared for. So, when you were sweet, witty and respectful as ever, make him feel that you are still the same.

5. Learn to be self-determining and be TRUE

To be independent means you have the capacity to deal with things on your own. Most partners respect those who can stand with their decisions

Honesty is also an important tool to earn someone’s respect. It is with honesty that you are able to share all your views, opinions, feelings and sentiments to your partner which in turn giving him the respect you have always been desiring.

6. Do what makes you happy

Relationship doesn’t mean that you have to be overly dependent and clingy to your partner all the time, as when you does, you will not have his respect. Make time for yourself, to enjoy the life in you and to always try to be the best for yourself and to your partner.

7. Listen

One important for an effective communication is listening as it helps you gather significant thoughts and feelings from your parter and vice versa. It is not all the time that you talk over an argument, it is also best to listen to your partner, his or her views and opinions so that the process of communication is followed and at the same time your partner appreciates you for respecting him or her through listening.